My friend said this...

by - July 13, 2015

My friends said this,
"Why you are not dating? I mean you are not even familiar with girls, rarely hang out with girls. Are you a gay?"
Surprised at first. Then i said, 
"There is no term of dating in Islam."
He replied in such a sudden,
"Then why the others dating?"
"...." /no answer from me.

The question is, since when Islam recognize dating?
Some moslem said,
"Yo bro, it is not cool if we are not dating"
"Yo man, we can get closer by dating, knowing each other"
"Yo bro, we can understand each other before moving into next step"
As far as i know, there is no term of dating in Islam (correct me if im wrong). Rather than uses Dating term, Islam uses Ta'aruf (you could google it).
Citing from Erdogan words
"... There is no moderate in Islam. Islam is ISLAM."
While in the other religion it might be allowed to date (once again, correct me if im wrong), still I respect the others.
Moslem must tolerate the others.
We have to respect systems.
We have to respect people.
There are tolerances in Islam to other religions.
It is stated in Qur'an Surah Al Kafiroon (based on Sahih International Translation)
( 1 ) Say, "O disbelievers, (disbelievers relates to non moslem)
( 2 ) I do not worship what you worship.
( 3 ) Nor are you worshippers of what I worship.
( 4 ) Nor will I be a worshipper of what you worship.
( 5 ) Nor will you be worshippers of what I worship.
( 6 ) For you is your religion, and for me is my religion."
"For you is your religion, and for me is my religion. "
It is strongly said that we accept tolerance each other.
Tolerances are exist, but if it is about Aqidah, there is no any single thing called tolerance. Am i right?
Im still learning how to be a moslem (as i found it is not easy to be a moslem).
My teacher one time said,
Nowadays, there is something wrong in moslem. There might be exist some thought or even community with wrong concepts. It is when Islam is used for own sake rather than for Allah, Islam, and people.
nb: this post is to warn myself (and might be the others). It might be also to share to the others the term of tolerance in Islam.
Sorry for my bad english perhaps smile emoticon
Suggestions are needed ^^

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